A Message For All Of My Peoples Pleasers

We all know what it's like to give so much of energy to someone or something and then just felt absolutely drained afterwards?⠀

It's an awful feeling, isn't it?

Like you are giving, giving, giving so much of you and just not receiving much back in return? 

This is a pattern that's not going to serve you in feeling your absolute best. 

This pattern happens when we lack boundaries for ourselves 

Did you speak up and stand up for yourself?

It took me a long freaking time to learn this lesson.⠀

I used to be a people pleasure through and through 

I’d give, give, give even when my heart was telling me not to⠀

I didn’t know how to express myself— I had no boundaries and I just wanted to make others happy which caused me to completely neglect myself⠀

And the WORST part — when someone would try to give me something, I’d completely shut them down “No, no, it’s ok. Thank you.”⠀

This is NOT LIFEEEE⠀

Allowing yourself to RECEIVE in exchange for your own valuable energy — that’s some REAL Self Love ⠀

How you receive one thing is how you receive everything so if you’re not good at receiving compliments, kind gestures, people buying you coffee/lunch/dinner, gifts, money— if you feel weird receiving one thing, you’re literally blocking yourself from receiving so much of your manifestations⠀⠀

Real Self love is valuing yourself to the point that you allow yourself all the goodness this universe has to offer you. And to do that— you gotta be able to speak your truth, stand up for your highest self & set boundaries for what you do & don’t deserve!!⠀

Let’s do itttt! This is a hugeee part of my 12 Week 1:1 coaching, so please don’t feel like you’ve gotta figure this out alone, I’m more than happy to guide the way and support you as you learn to receive, stand tall in your truth, and set boundaries that have you feelin like the MF-ing CEO of your lifeee⠀⠀

Message me, we’ll schedule a free discovery call to see if Life Coaching is a good fit⠀