✴️ Life Hack ✴️⠀

Have you ever noticed that your thoughts can totally affect how you feel?? ⠀

Like if you sit back and think about it, you can really feel stressed, overwhelmed, anxious just by your freaking thoughts alone⠀

Wake up in the morning, start thinking about all this shit you have to do— that can really fuck with your mood just by the damn thoughts going on in your head⠀

Our thoughts really impact our emotions and our emotions really impact our vibe ⠀

❓❓❓So what about if you tried this...⠀

Next time you’re in a low vibe funk— what if you spent some time thinking about one of your favorite memories of your entire life? ⠀

Thinking back to one of your favorite vacations, concerts, night with friends— maybe the day your child was born or the day of a major accomplishment 

What happens when you start thinking about those memories??⠀

It can raise your vibe like crazy⠀

You can literally elevate yourself by feeling the same way you felt that day ⠀

Pure joy, bliss, exciteme...

We all know what it's like to give so much of energy to someone or something and then just felt absolutely drained afterwards?⠀

It's an awful feeling, isn't it?

Like you are giving, giving, giving so much of you and just not receiving much back in return? 

This is a pattern that's not going to serve you in feeling your absolute best. 

This pattern happens when we lack boundaries for ourselves 

Did you speak up and stand up for yourself?

It took me a long freaking time to learn this lesson.⠀

I used to be a people pleasure through and through 

I’d give, give, give even when my heart was telling me not to⠀

I didn’t know how to express myself— I had no boundaries and I just wanted to make others happy which caused me to completely neglect myself⠀

And the WORST part — when someone would try to give me something, I’d completely shut them down “No, no, it’s ok. Thank you.”⠀

This is NOT LIFEEEE⠀

Allowing yourself to RECEIVE in exchange for your own valuable energy — that’s some REA...

I got something I want to remind you..⠀

WHAT A BOMB ASS, UNIQUE PERSON YOU ARE!⠀

Do you receive that compliment?⠀

I’m serious⠀

No matter what life’s brought your way — you’re fucking bomb with LIMITLESS potential ✨⠀

If you’re feeling good in life right now, you’re probably like—⠀

“Hell ya Melissa, I receive that compliment”⠀

If you’re not feeling so good about life right now— you can probably feel that little shit talking devil in your shoulder resisting the shit out of my compliment 😈 ⠀

Let me say it again...⠀

WHAT A FUCKING BOMB ASS UNIQUE PERSON YOU ARE WITH LIMITLESS CAPABILITIES & ENDLESS WAYS TO HEAL YOURSELF & THE WORLD 🌎 ⠀

Believe it babyy⠀

The way you feel right this second doesn’t have to be the way that you feel the rest of your life 

Have you ever sat there saying things to yourself like..⠀

❗️”I feel behind in life, I really envisioned more for myself by now”⠀

❗️”I don’t want to feel so stuck anymore — I’m tired of feeling like I’m not progressing”⠀

❗️”I don’...

I remember when I was first getting into fitness I used to be so fucking rude to myself because I wasn’t as coordinated as I envisioned myself being ⠀

It’s been a practice of finding grace with myself. Being kind. Standing tall for my potential— not my limitations.⠀

Life is just like a balancing act. Some days you’re gunna get knocked off balance ⠀

How will you react??? ⠀

Cuz that’s what matters ⠀

Who cares if you’re a klutz like meee, that makes us unique! That makes us real! That makes us human! ⠀

No need to be judgmental towards ourself — it’s time to embrace allllllll of who we are — not just how ‘perfect’ we can be ⠀

If you can stay balanced for days on days, fuck yaaaa— good for you!!! ⠀

If you’re more like me, you may feel the ebbs & flow of life⠀

Some days your super motivated, super gung hoe (ps I’ve never actually used that word in a caption i don’t think 🤣🤣) and super high vibe ⠀

The very next day or maybe even a few hours later— BAM those sneaky low vibes creep in...

WTF are my manifestations taking so long?⠀

I get it, trust me - it can be frustrating when you want something so badly but you feel like it’s not showing up.

Then you start questioning if manifestation is actually real or as easy as people say it is ⠀

Can I give you a little tip?⠀⠀

First of all - frustrated, desperate or needy energy will REPEL your desires. If you feel yourself feeling annoyed - it’s so important to shift back to a place of gratitude. Gratitude is everythingggg when you want to attract more.
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This ones big- ⠀⠀

Have you been noticing the ways that the manifestation HAS already begun to start coming to fruition in your life?? The Universe needs time to arrange what it is that you desire but it will surely send you some pretty bomb signs along the way if YOU are open to receiving these messages. ⠀⠀

Let me give a few examples….⠀⠀

For example - when you really, really want something like….⠀⠀

A Dream Car - Tell me how many times the Universe has put that car in yo...